YellowBird Wedding

because simple is beautiful

October 3rd was an amazing day. There may have been a chill in the air, but when you’re near Jessica and Tom, you feel nothing but warmth. At the Fox Valley Club I found guests gathering excitedly for what they knew would be a beautiful evening. Jessica and Tom are a lovely couple and I was excited that I was going to share this day with them. They both looked calm and ready for the moment (although watching Tom sneak off and nervously chug water beforehand made me smile), and everything looked perfect inside. I had spoken to Jessica’s mom, Jill many times over email, and I knew how excited she was for this day. It’s amazing what joy a wedding can bring to family and friends, and I love the time I get to just watch people gather and talk about the day. I’m a wallflower at life’s most exciting events!
Soon it was time to begin and Tom and I made our way up front with his groomsmen close behind. That’s when everyone starts to get that nervous energy that keeps hands fixing suit coats and feet moving from spot to spot. Finally Jessica walked into the room, looking stunning, and everyone took to their feet, looking amazed. She made her way to her future husband and they took hands and looked absolutely comforted once their met eyes. They had a candle ceremony where they invited their moms up, and it was exciting to see the transition from being the person they were, to the person they are becoming as a wife and a husband. They finally kissed and it was official, more so when guests showered them with white sprinkles! Congratulations Tom and Jessica! I’m so happy that you found me and that I was able to share in such an extraordinary day! To a lifetime of happiness!!!

October 2nd was the first fully fall day of the year. And with that it brought some chilly wind. But that wasn’t gonna stop Staci and Dan from having their moment under the gazebo at The Lancaster Country Club. So guests huddled inside, building up their warmth, before it was time to head outside! Staci and Dan both seemed so happy though. It wasn’t about weather, it was about each other. So after checking in with both of them, and feeling their energy, I wasn’t worried about being cold outside anymore. Soon it was time and we headed out. Dan’s mom wasn’t able to be there, but she was there through facetime, which was such a lovely idea. No one would want to miss this moment!
Soon, Staci came out, looking beautiful, and made her way to Dan. They started laughing and I’m pretty sure it was at a gust of wind that came whipping in. It takes such a magical couple to be able to take a non-perfect situation and make it their own. In that moment I knew they wouldn’t have changed a thing. They said their vows and did their wine ceremony, and kept giving me that expecting look which I’ve learned means, “is it almost over?? We want to kiss!” I was happy to finally announce them husband and wife and watch them grab each other for the best moment of all! Congratulations Dan and Staci! I’m so happy that I got to spend that moment with you. It beat out any warm, boring spot there is. I wish you a lifetime of happy days and long, beautiful falls.

Lovely people pick lovely places to be married. That sure was true on September 19th at Wanakah Country Club. We already know it was raining down on weddings all over Buffalo, so Ashley and John had to move their party indoors as well. They didn’t seem too upset about that though, they mostly just seemed excited. John and his groomsmen were getting ready doing the usual guy stuff. Which is mainly trying to figure out how to pin boutineers on. If I had a dollar for every boutineer I’ve pinned…and the girls were hiding upstairs taking some last minute pictures. There were a lot of guests gathered and they were excitedly talking and waiting for the big moment. I checked to make sure that Ashley and John were ready and had their love letters ready for their Wine/Love Letter Box, and headed out!
As I waited with John, he was all smiles, but none was as big as when Ashley stepped forward. They suddenly seemed nervous, realizing what a huge moment this one. They grabbed hands to calm each other and it was a breeze. During a reading, John looked at me with panic, realizing he forgot to bring his love letter out for the ceremony! When the time came, I handed him the marriage license in it’s envelope and no one was the wiser! It looked like I was just holding his letter for him. Disaster averted! Ashley could  tell and she started laughing a bit. I’m pretty sure these two are laughing all the time. They finally kissed as husband and wife and the crowd erupted! Congratulations John and Ashley! You’re a beautiful couple and all the rain only solidified a lucky marriage. Best wishes always.

 

Seriously, I’m over writing about the rain. It’s like it’s just haunting my weekend ceremonies. It’s a good thing I meet so many awesome people that don’t freak out when it rains on them on their big day. Stephanie and Michael were the kind of awesome couple I’m talking about. Their ceremony was at the beautiful Templeton Landing, and the rain wouldn’t take a hint. Until it did stop! And then started 10 minutes later 😦 But then it stopped again! But started 10 minutes later 😦 This went on for a bit. Stephanie and Michael decided to just risk it and start the ceremony in one of those 10 minute breaks. We all know how this story ends. I’m waiting up front with Michael and gorgeous Stephanie steps outside. Guests immediately stand because, well, she looks amazing and they are so excited. As soon as she takes her first step towards Michael, rain. RAIN. WTF. But she kept her cool and I really think that just looking at him was enough for her. I greeted her and commented on what a lucky and refreshing day it was, and once they laughed I knew they were doing ok. It’s not about weather, or favors, and even food. It’s about this moment. Two people who love each other and can’t wait to tell everyone they know that they are planning on spending forever together. And I for one, loved every second of it. Rain and all. Congratulations Michael & Stephanie! You’re such a strong, and amazing couple. I imagine it’s only sunny skies from this point forward! Much love and happiness.

Days like September 18th don’t come around very often. I was so honored to officiate the wedding of my best friend Amanda and her amazing, amazing wife Joelle! I’ve known Amanda since we were 15 and have been friends longer than we haven’t been. Yeah. 20 years. So obviously, I have a lot of love for this person. Between the ceremony and my reception speech, there isn’t much more that I can say about the two of them and how perfect they are for each other. All you had to do was peek Amanda’s cuflinks that Joelle got her, that had the latitude and longitude of where they first met and where their wedding was, to get an idea of how they were made for each other. It’s such an amazing feeling to see someone you love so happy, and I got to see that all night long, starting at Larkin Square for the ceremony, and The Foundry for the reception. I don’t have many pictures of how beautiful everything was like I usually do, because I was so swept up in that night. And with almost 300 guests, it was an endless celebration of love and friendship. Since I don’t want to actually start crying as I type this, congratulations Joelle & Amanda! I love you both and couldn’t have been happier that you asked me to officiate your wedding. You’ll both have my love always, and god knows you’ll have each others.

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There are some couples that rain will not hold down. Kristen and Ray are definitely one of those couples. At the Bristol Harbour Resort, they weren’t going to let a few showers dampen their spirits on September 12th. And by a few showers I mean torrential downpour. When I arrived, people were scrambling to get this wedding covered, but still outdoors. It was warm and comfortable out, the rain just wouldn’t quit. So everything moved from the grass to a covered space and still looked perfect. Now that’s a venue! They can accommodate no matter what!
Kristen and Ray were both adorable when I found them. Super excited, super happy, super ready to be married. The girls hid out in the bathroom while Ray ran around making sure everything was perfect for the moment Kristen made her debut. I love watching the grooms make sure everything is perfect. It’s a gift they are giving their new bride, and she doesn’t even see it happening! Soon it was time to make our way outdoors, and get ready to make some newlyweds! The ceremony started off lovely. And then, you know, they had Kristen’s cousin come up and sing an opera! Yes an opera! It was amazing and beautiful and I don’t think I’ll ever forget it. The couple looked blown away by it, and guests pretty much had the exact same expression. Kristen and Ray were so cute with each other. Smiling, laughing, saying little things to one another. It’s exactly how you hope a ceremony to go. They also brought a sapling with them that they watered and added soil to, preparing it to be planted at their home together. I’m just a sucker for this stuff. I love the tree planting ceremony. Every day you’ll have the chance to step out into your yard and be reminded of an amazing day.
They loved, they planted, they kissed, and they were married! Congratulations Ray and Kristen. You’re an adorable couple and I’m so happy that you found me and that I was able to share in your day. Much love always!

September 6th continued by remaining crazy warm, and crazy lovely. Heading over to Kloc’s Grove it was time to join Stacy and Michael in matrimony! Guests were milling about and I may have gone up to Michael’s brother instead of him (they look so much alike), but eventually I found my couple and saw that they were very excited to begin.
Guests were having such a good time, it was hard to get everyone to sit down for the ceremony. Energy was up, and it was a great party before it even started. Soon though, Michael and I headed to the front and guests excitedly took their seats, knowing that it was about to begin. Stacy came out looking beautiful and made her way up to Michael…where they were both nervous. I can always tell, because they will look down and away and try not to stare at each other because they are worried they will cry. A perfect moment was when Michael said his vows. He looked right into Stacy’s eyes, and you could see why he was avoiding that before. During the middle his voice cracked with emotion as he fought back tears. It was by far and away my favorite moment of the ceremony. I think they were happy and relieved when the kiss came that not only were they husband and wife, but that they were out of the spotlight.
Congratulations Michael and Stacy! The two of you are perfect for each other and I hope that one amazing day leads to an amazing lifetime. Best wishes always!

The sun was out on September 6th, and it was no joke. The streets were cooking by 11am as I headed out to Orchard Park to marry Julie and Dominic in a beautiful backyard wedding. They were planning a 12:00 wedding, so I arrived at 11:30 to check in and see how things were going. Well Julie wasn’t messing around! As soon as I walked in the door, she decided we should start in case it was possible it could get any hotter out! She was afraid her guests would be cooked alive outside! I quickly found Dominic and headed for the back door. What an amazing yard! Enormous and full of flowers. Most venues don’t even look this nice. The walkway leading to the spot was a good indication of what I was in for. Dominic and I waited for Julie, sweating the whole time, but excited for her to appear. Once she did, even though the sun was in his eyes, Dominic found her face and smiled as she approached him. I tired to keep it short and sweet so that everyone could find the shade, but guests seemed happy to be there, and didn’t notice the heat. Soon enough it was time for a kiss surrounded in sun beams and another couple became husband and wife. Congratulations Dominic and Julie! It was a beautiful day, in a beautiful place, with a beautiful couple. Best wishes always.

September 5th was amazing. It was a beautiful day, and Diamond Hawk Golf Course was the perfect place to be. It was nice and cool inside and the room was set up to match the couples’ love of sailing, which they do every Sunday. Each table was named after a different part of a sailboat (I learned a lot), and room looked ready for a party. I saw Chris when I arrived and was immediately greeted with one of his wonderful smiles. He’s quite a charmer and you could see guests flock to him, simply happy for his happiness. He was a bit nervous, but mostly because he accidentely knocked the bride wedding topper off, and had to rush to clean her up. No worries though, the cake still looked perfect! He was also feeling quite proud because the arbor that they would be married under, he had built by hand. And it was gorgeous! I was impressed when I saw it, and knew that it would make a beautiful addition to their backyard.
I found Johana who was hiding out in the bathroom with her bridesmaids and daughters, who were the CUTEST little flower girls. She looked a little worried because one of the little ones (obviously) got something on her dress, and Johana wanted everything to be perfect. As I was looking around at how beautiful everything was and how full of love everyone was, it was funny to think she didn’t yet know that this was a perfect day already. But I knew that as soon as she walked out and saw her husband-to-be, she would realize that nothing else mattered except that moment.
Soon enough it was time, so we made our way to the arbor under the hot sun and watched Johana make her walk down to Chris’ arms. I could tell he was fighting back tears because he had the sniffles from the moment she appeared. And a reminder to guests: while you are supposed to stand when the bride walks down, don’t stand in the aisle! Chris’ view from Johana was blocked a few times, and he was very upset about that. He wanted to see her every moment that he could. All distractions aside, they found each other, they vowed their love, they kissed, and they were married! Congratulations Christopher and Johana! I’m so happy you found each other and will be able to build a life together until the end of your days. All my love forever!

September 4th was filled with geese, swans, and I’m pretty sure I heard a camel somewhere in there. But this is to be expected at Hidden Valley Animal Adventure where Jessica & Kyle decided to tie the knot! It’s one thing to be surrounded by nature such as trees and water, which they had, but to be surrounded by animals is a whole new level and it’s amazing!
I checked in with Kyle who was in the process of getting teased by his groomsmen. He said he was the last of them to get married, and that they were really enjoying this opportunity to mess with him. All in good fun of course. It was a scorcher of a day, so we hung out inside until we knew Jessica had arrived and would be ready to begin. Not to mention, I was a little worried about all the geese. Those birds can find a real attitude, but luckily, they were in the wedding spirit and were well behaved. Kyle and I headed to the alter and awaited Jessica’s beautiful entrance. Her show was almost stolen by the couples’ ADORABLE two little girls who acted as flower girls for their mom. Guests were laughing and clapping, but then there was silence when Jessica appeared. Having people awed into silence is a pretty grand way to enter! She made her way up to her groom, and they got close to each other and held hands, smiling nervously at one another. They had brought a crazy enormous healthy sized apple tree with them, to water and add soil to on their wedding day, before taking it back home and planting it. The only hitch was that apple trees don’t grow well alone, so Kyle knew he’d probably be buying more apple trees soon enough, and dragging them around. They laughed as they watered their tree together, and it’s exciting to think about it growing in their yard over the years of their marriage.
Then came that big kiss and the applause of happy friends and family that have been looking forward to this moment. Congratulations Kyle and Jessica! You’ve already created such a beautiful family together, this was just another moment of showing each other just how much you love one another. Happiness always!